Hold men accountable for their shitty behavior. Don’t excuse it, don’t gloss over it, don’t ignore it, don’t explain it, don’t tolerate it. How they act is who they are. They are responsible for their behavior. You are not responsible for dealing with it.
I thought of texting you “good morning, I can’t sleep” and then I remembered that you are on a journey which I am not a part of and that’s okay but good morning I can’t sleep